It was the week before Advent last year when I first felt the determination to kick my own observance of Advent up a notch. We had gotten our box of Advent and Christmas books out of the attic. I was so excited to throw myself into my high-intensity personal preparation for the coming of the King. And when I pulled my Advent pamphlets and booklets out of the box, my heart fell. "Oh yeah," I thought, "I remember these" : guides to Advent for the lukewarm soul. Every year I'd read them, and every year I was not challenged to have the type of Advent I wanted. The booklets in front of me read like a poorly organized Friday night meditation on a teen retreat... "Advent is a time of waiting. Have you ever waited for something? A phone call, a package in the mail, a plane, a train, an automobile?" or "Advent is a time of helping. Have you ever helped someone? How did it feel? Did you feel like dancing? How can you help someone today? Were you supposed to help someone yesterday, and forgot?" or this "Advent is a time of social justice. Have you sung We Shall Overcome today?" (I have clearly take some liberties here in the paraphrasing of my treasure trove of mediocre Advent literature.)
There was a time when those types of meditations may have been more helpful to me. And they may actually be what some adults need to consider. But last year I was ready for the heavy and hard hitting stuff. I wanted theology and (small doses of) philosophy, I wanted Scripture, and I didn't want fluffy feel-good Advent books. I wanted to have a "consider your weakness and helplessness in the face of life's trials and temptations and know the goodness and power of the God who came to Earth in that same weakness and helplessness to rid you of yours" type of Advent. I wanted a body of Advent literature that would challenge me to strip away the barriers, baggage, and excuses I collected through the last year and jubilantly invite me to a renewed love of the Savior come for me.
So I put the call out there on trusty old facebook. I got some wonderful responses, spent a small fortune at Amazon.com, and last year I had a very different kind of Advent. I finally found some of the books that I had been looking for but didn't know existed. Finally, I could break free of the free-in-the-back-of-the-church Advent pamphlets.
I can't wait for this Sunday, the First day of Advent! I have my stash ready - a book that I'll keep at my corner of the couch, one at my bed, one in the car, and a few others scattered about the house (I wrote that so that I wouldn't have to write that I keep some in the bathrooms...) I can't wait to revisit the richness I discovered last year. Borrowing some thoughts from a wise and good friend: When I nourish myself with the "meatier" materials of the season, I have a spiritual bounty that will overflow into my family. There is a wealth of Advent excitement, preparation, and anticipation to share with my children because I took the time to delve into my Advent stuff for adults!
Here's what I have and recommend, in no particular order:
(Obviously, I don't necessarily recommend trying to read everything every day. Burnout by Day three, guaranteed.)
In Conversation With God, Vol. 1, Advent and Christmastide, Francis Fernandez
(incidentally, I loved this so much last year, I bought the whole 7 volume set - meditations for every day
(incidentally, I loved this so much last year, I bought the whole 7 volume set - meditations for every day
of the year. I know I said 'no particular order' but this is my favorite!)
Behold, He Comes: Meditations on the Incarnation, Fr. Benedict Groeschel
The Blessing of Christmas, Pope Benedict, XVI
The Magnificat Advent Companion (this link is to the 2012 Kindle edition, which I just bought for 99
cents!)
And two I have my eyes on for this year or next are:
Advent Meditations with Fulton Sheen , for my Kindle (or should I do the hard copy???)
God is in the Manger, by Dietrich Bonhoeffer, because it looks awesome
Bahahaha..."have you ever waited for something?" I was laughing out loud at your opinion of mediocre Advent materials. I SO know what you're talking about!! I remember getting a reflection book on saints from my mom and one of the meditations was about "looking at things in a new way" and it's deeply spiritual life application was to rearrange my furniture that day. I never picked up that book again :) Anyway...I was just thinking this same thing the other day! How often we observe the liturgical year and think of it as "for the children" when really we're teaching the children so that they can eventually live it in its fullness WITH US. It becomes a rhythm of the heart and soul and not just a fun way to get through the year. I know I'm guilty of it and I appreciate the encouragement to deepen things for my own soul this Advent. Now to find the right reading for me...
ReplyDelete"It becomes a rhythm of the heart and soul and not just a fun way to get through the year." - I need that reminder a lot. Nicely said. I meant to tell you that I decided to write this post when I saw your Advent give-away. I was going to "enter" and then I remembered all the great stuff I got last year, and I got so excited to get it out again! So, Thanks!
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ReplyDeleteMan, I SO needed this! It really IS easy to think that Advent (and all of life, I guess) is all about the kids. Great stuff. I actually ordered the Kindle Magnificat Advent companion a few days ago!Now I'll be ordering some more things:)
ReplyDeleteIn Conversation with God (series) = Life for Adults. ;)
ReplyDeleteHave a most blessed Advent, dear Theresa.
I know this is a super old post (I've just discovered your blog and am enjoying the archives) so I don't even know if you'll get this or maybe you've written about it in more recent years, but Come Lord Jesus by Mother Mary Francis is an AMAZING advent book! And thanks for your recommendations. I've ready hers for 2 or 3 years in a row and was looking for something new. I'll start here!
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